Supporting somebody with COPD

Be informed, be patient and ask what support is wanted.

COPD can affect the whole household. Helpful support protects the person’s dignity and independence while making difficult days safer and less isolating.

Understand the person’s plan

With their permission, learn which medicines they use, what their usual symptoms are and what their clinician has told them to do when symptoms worsen. Do not change doses or begin treatment on their behalf unless this is part of an agreed plan.

Practical support

  • Allow tasks to be completed at the person’s pace.
  • Offer help with prescriptions, shopping or appointments.
  • Keep the home smoke-free and reduce strong fumes where possible.
  • Encourage suitable activity rather than assuming rest is always best.
  • Ask what help is wanted rather than making every decision.

Emotional support

Breathlessness can be frightening and changes in ability may affect confidence and mood. Listening calmly can be more helpful than rushing to give advice. Encourage professional help when anxiety, low mood or isolation are affecting daily life.

Your wellbeing matters too

Carers and family members may need rest, support and space to talk about their own concerns.

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